This subject always tickled me pink. It’s 2009, and people either still aren’t doing it, or are lying about doing it. Either way it’s funny to me to say the least. I would suggest you step your game up in 2009, because if you think a man or woman is going to MARRY you, and you don’t perform oral sex you’re mistaken. You don’t even have to do it before you’re married, just sign a promissory note, that you will when you become husband and wife. As long as you don’t run around sucking/eating random people, it’s not a problem. I’m sure Adam and Eve did it, and if you don’t believe in God, the micro-organisms, monkeys, and cavemen got down too. I know a lot of girls say, I’m not doing that, it’s nasty, etc. Best believe your man will stray, maybe not now, maybe not next year, but he WILL. NO MAN CAN GO WITHOUT GETTING HEAD (at least not the men I know). That goes for black, white, Puerto Rican, Asian or Haitian, mess around and be selfish if you want, they’re will be a bad (meaning good) chick on her knees like Superhead. I wouldn’t want to be with a man that didn’t ask or or didn’t want oral sex, I would think he was gay, weak, or cheating. Even if you do it and don’t admit it, which makes you a liar, at least you do it. That goes for men too, that ship has sailed, think you can get women in the bedroom and not eat, oh boy are you mistaken. And for some reason all the West Indian men I meet, all say they can’t or won’t or don’t do it. WTF?! That’s bogus, I know many a Rasta that say they don’t and stay going fishing. It’s time to stop acting like a 12 year old, and eat. It’s good for you. :)